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Lets make up, love



Dear baby,

I want you to know that no relationship is ever perfect and so will not be ours. There will be times when you will feel angry, irritated and will find me taking your space away from you.

But my love, there is no rule book to parenthood that i can refer to and like i am trying to make you a good child, you too have to help me being a good mumma. Motherhood came to me with you only so you have to bear my rights and my wrongs as well.

But you know child what will be the best thing about our relationship. You will be free to tell me my mistakes but in return i will be telling yours and you will have to be patient with that. You will be free to tell me your point of view but you will have to listen that of mine too. But yes, at the end of the day, i and you together will ensure that nothing is imposed on any of us.

Fair deal noe?

With love,
Mumma

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